Life Coaching for thirty-something Unfulfilled Achievers

Kat Amey | Life Coach | Bournemouth, Dorset

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Your friends are getting engaged, buying houses, climbing the career ladder. And you? You're still figuring it out.

You've achieved some things - you're not exactly failing - but you look around and wonder: how did everyone else work this out? Even the stuff you have achieved doesn't feel like you thought it would. Life just feels... dull.

Here's what I know: You're not behind. You're not doing it wrong.

You're just done pretending that following everyone else's path equals happiness. And that realisation? That's the beginning of something good.

I help thirty-somethings who feel stuck, behind, and unexcited by life reconnect with what they actually want - and build a life that lights them up.

Helping you to redefine success in your thirties

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  • LUCY

    I found Kat at a period of huge transition in my life. I felt very lost and without stability. I left a job that, on paper, was perfect. It had financial stability, great benefits and good future prospects. But Kat helped me to see that it’s not a bad thing that I left. It wasn’t good for my mental health and she helped me to navigate my conflicting emotions about taking such a leap.

    If you come to the table with an open mind and frank honesty, Kat will reciprocate and guide you on your journey with commitment, compassion, flexibility and a kind nature that is like a breath of fresh air.

  • EMILY

    I’ve been working with Kat for a little over 3 months and she truly has the kindest, most gentle energy. I was in the midst of a really life changing transition that I was struggling to navigate alone. I was reluctant to seek out help but I felt a really good and authentic connection with Kat and she held a lot of space for me to be open and honest.

    I really believe that I have so much to thank Kat for - the support, conversations and answers I was able to find as a result is more than I ever expected. Kat has a gift, she makes you feel so seen. There are more and more positive changes showing up as days go by, and far less negative thoughts. Kat, I can’t thank you enough for working so closely with me and being a real core person that helped make a very messy, confusing and stressful time in my life actually become something I look back on and see so much beauty in.

  • S.R

    Trust the process, trust Kat and trust yourself. Be open to going where you don’t expect to because that is where the magic happens.

  • HELEN

    Kat is fantastic at allowing you to be a vulnerable messy version of yourself and then to help you place each brick along your new path to success. The seemingly small life hacks have led to much larger revelations, and have compounded into a beautiful new journey through life.

  • MARIA CAPORASO, Senior Partnerships Specialist, Cancer Research UK

    Kat led a very informative and engaging session for our department centred around cultivating a positive morning mindset. The session proved to be highly engaging, striking a perfect balance between theory and practical insights, generously supplemented with tips and real-life examples. Working with Kat was nothing short of brilliant, and we are very happy with the session and what our team could take away from it. We highly recommend Kat for corporate well-being workshops.

  • NIKI

    I instantly felt comfortable and safe with Kat as she asked just the right questions to tease those answers out of me. I went away with a plan of action, thanks to Kat listening and understanding me throughout our session.

  • KATE

    Working with Kat has been both joyful and transformational. My goal was to create a new schedule that enables me to meet my wellness goals and feel great, with a particular focus on my morning routine and starting each day in a positive way. With Kat’s support, I have learned what works for me and what doesn’t work for me, and experimented with different wellness activities. The end result is that I’m now waking up earlier, making time for yoga several times a week and have also started doing some strength training again. I really value Kat’s coaching and guidance. I highly recommend Kat to anyone wanting to work on their wellbeing!

Get to Know Me

Hey - I’m Kat.

I'm a Certified Life Coach and Retreat Host based near Bournemouth on the beautiful Dorset Coastline.

I get it because I've been there - looking successful in some ways but feeling completely lost about where I was actually going.

So I left my event management career for a job in Thailand with no real plan. Eight years abroad taught me that success isn't about keeping up with your mates or hitting certain milestones by a certain age.

Now I help thirty-somethings who feel stuck, behind, and unexcited by life figure out what they actually want (not what they think they should want) - and take action to build it.

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